Imagination always wins against willpower.
The student actually educates himself with the assistance of the teacher.
Once a person believes something is true he will act as if it was.
The degree to which you awaken will be in direct proportion to how much truth you can accept about yourself.
Try out new principles.
We avoid, resist and reject ideas which threaten our beliefs
Is my belief rational? Could I be mistaken?
A self-confident personality is not possible until you have built a solid foundation of self-reliance.
The moment you begin to compare yourself with anyone you are subjecting yourself to slavery.
Do not depend on others. No one can let you down if you haven't been leaning on them.
The conformist is filled with need for approval.
The person who compares himself to others is filled with fear.
All forms of competition are hostile to creativity.
The reward is in the doing, not the end result.
The competitive person always needs someone else to validate what he is doing.
The self-reliant person strives for excellence in his own life.
The destructive power of praise lies in it making you identify yourself with your actions. You did well so you must be good; conversely if you do badly you must be bad.
People can be controlled with praise.
You must stop placing others above you.
Recognition is much better than praise. It's just a statement of fact.
Nothing can stop you from achieving self-confidence.
Positive self-esteem is not an ego trip. It is self-acceptance.
Self-defeating concepts beliefs and values we have accepted from our parents.
There is no such thing as a bad child; only actions are bad.
Awareness determines your concept of reality.
You always do your best (as prescribed by your awareness).
You must allow others to live according to their awareness even if it is faulty.
You can only be compassionate and understanding of others to the degree that you
are understanding of yourself.
Stop all value-judging because it is harmful to your wellbeing.
There is no good bad right wrong fair unfair.
As soon as you start loving others as they are they will start loving you.
Everyone is always motivated even if it is just to sit in a chair.
There is positive and negative motivation.
You will always do what you would rather do than not.
To make a positive change you must evaluate the potential benefits. Then you must convince yourself that the benefits will outweigh the price.
Everyone is self-motivated.
The alcoholic has decided that the addiction is worth the price and will continue to do so until his awareness changes, usually as a result of something tragic.
Do not use good bad right wrong etc. Use "wise" and "unwise".
That is not a value judgment of a person.
You have the right and option to choose to do anything you want to do.
You can only do the thing your awareness allows you. You must allow yourself to make mistakes because that is how awareness is expanded.
You will never be free until your learn to accept full responsibility for your life. You have to accept full responsibility for your actions, words etc. and there is a price to pay for each.
Beofre you do anyting ask yourself: Is it a wise act or an unwise act? Will it contribute to my basic needs? Will it harm me or someone else? What is the total price I must pay? Am I willing to pay this price?
We must get rid of negative habits.
Diets fail because the dieter begins to feel deprived.
Before you can change any habit you must recognize and accept that you have one.
Positive habit conditioning program:
What negative habit do you want to replace?
What positive habit will you use to replace it?
What actions will you take to do it?
What is the easiest and most logical way to do this?
Visualize yourself as having already succeeded.
Select and use positive affirmation ("I am my creator. Everyting I can be is a part of me."
Remove anything in your life that is not working for you
See what is working right and program that.
Add new desireable and wise habits.
Accept that you have a bad habit but do not judge your value
Weigh benefits/cost
You must be convinced that the change will bring about the gratification of a certain need.
Every stranger you meet is crying out: "Please love me."
Love begins with loving yourself
You can't give love. You can only be loving. Learn to love your mind, thoughts, body, life, trees, cars,
For every positive want we have a negative want which we don't want to admit.
Give your dominant attention to what you want.
There is an Universal Mind.
Whatever desire you have carries with it the means.
Whatever you visualize you can have. See yourself having achieved and then consider your wish accomplished. Then it becomes a self-fulling prophesy
Picture the end result and know you have it. Feel it.
You will get what you want when you feel you already have it.
You don't have to be clever or witty; just have an interest in other people.
Hold only positive conversations.Let people know you enjoy life. Everyone wants to associate with those have a happy outlook.
Let the other person know she is impressing you.
Make the first move. Assume that she is friendly and act as if you expect to be both welcomed and liked. Take for granted that she will like you and listen.
Start by asking questions.
Smile, smile, smile.
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